A man should be gentlemanlike,very clever,and always courteous;he is humorous,but not affected and reserved;rising in his profession,he is innocent of the pride of wealth;with great responsibility,he's a very domestic sort of man interested in his fondness for happiness;and capable of being sometimes out of humor;respectable in his reasonable manner;he is not an ill-tempered man,not so often unreasonably cross as to deserve such a reproach;sometimes no one can ever tell what he is thinking about,but not hypocrisy;he is proficent in the usual diversions,which are not the end and aim of life to him;he looks on life,and is neither too much heartened nor too much saddened.
　He wants his efforts to live up to his expectations.When tired,he shrugs and turns to his music and books and his better world.The life is not its great perfection.